In social networks, you can easily run into
such statements as, “The whole world is at your feet!” “Quit boring work and
start traveling!” Many people secretly envy travel bloggers, people who have
made travel their work and who seem to deliberately tease their followers with
amazing photos and videos from all over the world. And usually, users don’t
even realize what is hidden behind these cool shots. However, as you know, the
average woman goes on a trip about twice as often as the average man. And in
general, most men treat traveling calmly, without excitement (just like we all
don’t like to invent winter
date ideas), while for many women, travel is an obsession and an acute
need. So, many guys just don’t know how to date a girl who loves to travel
especially if they don’t share this passion to the full extent.
Why Is It Sometimes Difficult With a
Girl Who Loves to Travel?
A couple of years ago, the Internet was
full of articles or better to say statements in the style of “don’t date a girl
who travels.” If you enter these words in the search engine, you might find
them. If you are lazy to do that yourself, we will provide you with the main
points that reveal the whole essence of this statement. So, why you should
never date a girl who travels? Why can it be so difficult? Well, first, if you
are an admirer of aristocratic white skin color, then it can be difficult to
get used to the girl’s tanned skin that in addition, can have traces of
scratches and bites. Someone says that it’s extremely hard to please such a
girl, and an ordinary dinner in a movie can become something like torture for
her because she yearns for new experiences and adventures. If you don’t love to
travel, then all these talks about booking airline tickets on sale as well as
finding an apartment that will “convey the atmosphere” of the city can make you
start yawning or even get on your nerves. Besides, if your travel girl is a
freelancer, it may mean that she is a creative personality, and your stories
about office routine may not be interesting for her.
How to Find a Girl Who Loves to
According to the Greek vocabulary, a person
who loves to travel is called peripatetic, and if you want your girlfriend has
some attitude to this word, then you should look for someone who shares this
passion. It may seem that it’s not difficult to find a person who loves to
travel because everyone loves that. But, it is not true. Yes, as we have
already said, women are bigger fans of traveling than men, but the thing is
that to go on a vacation to another country once a year doesn’t mean that you
are into traveling. And if you are looking for a girl who is really into it,
then let’s look at certain moments.
1. Ask your friends about potential
It may turn out that your friends are
already familiar with a girl you are looking for. And your searches can end
right away. The fact that your closest friends are homebodies who don’t like to
leave the comfort and coziness of their apartments, doesn’t mean that their
friends and acquaintances are the same. Don’t be shy to ask whether they know
some beautiful and active girl who would like to keep your company. We are sure
that everyone knows at least several people who like to travel, so the theory
of seven handshakes can come you in handy.
2. Register on Instagram and Facebook
Nowadays social networks are an integral
part of our lives, and if you want to find something or someone, you can go
right there. If you don’t know where to start with, then start with hashtags
especially if you don’t care where the girl has come from. Just come up with
several words, phrases that will reflect the essence of your search or google
possible options. Thus, you will be able to find a colorful profile of a girl
who travels around the world and gets great pleasure from the process. Besides,
these social networks provide you with a possibility to find the publics where
travelers gather from time to time.
3. Join a travel community
Don’t say that you don’t have time to
attend some travel communities because you will not have even to leave your
house to do that since you can find everything online. Nowadays, you can find a
hundred thousand different groups and communities on the Internet. The same
Instagram and Facebook can help you find some of them, not to mention other
platforms that have been created specifically for people who love to travel.
There you can meet both solo travelers and those who are looking for a company
to conquer another country. Just don’t hesitate to contact a charming lady if
her comment in a discussion or under some pic has drawn your attention.
4. Find specialized forums
Today many different forums have been
created for people who want to share their experience, give some tips on
numerous aspects of traveling and just find themselves in a group of
like-minded people. It’s a special pleasure to talk to people who value and
appreciate your opinion, so people on such forums are open for communication
and discussions. You never know where you can find your soulmate.
5. Register on a dating site
It’s one of the easiest ways to meet
someone who loves to travel. Usually, when people fill in their profiles on
dating sites, they indicate their hobbies and passions, so if you are
attentive, you can find a girlfriend who will be glad to become your company.
Pay attention to the girl’s pics. If she is into traveling, then you will find
at least several pics from her journeys in the profile.
Is It Difficult to Travel Constantly?
Living out of a suitcase can be tiring.
Packing and unpacking things, living in hotels or some worse apartments,
booking flights, planning bus routes, reading maps can make you feel tired over
time. At some point, you may not want to think about anything. You may want to
have your cozy home where you can cook normal food, go to the gym and do some
other ordinary things. Such moments can bring discomfort. Besides, there is
another problem when you are traveling all the time.
When you go on a long-awaited vacation, you
are especially excited, you are looking forward to new experiences. But when
you travel all the time, that feeling is lost. You start taking everything for
granted. Things look the same. You can compare travel addiction with any other
addiction, and when emotions from new places become less bright, each time you
want to see something more and more incredible to feel real admiration, but
this doesn’t always happen. And at some point, it can become a problem.
Tips for Dating a Girl Who Loves to
It doesn’t matter how much you love to
travel if you are going to date a girl who adores that, then one way or
another, you will have to adjust yourself to this pastime. When you are
traveling with your girlfriend, you perceive a world around you a bit
differently, everything looks more interesting and stunning because you share
positive emotions and as if receive some recharge during this joint pastime.
Here are some tips on how to get a girl who is into traveling to get the best
out of it.
1. Learn how to have fun
A plan is always good, it does not allow
you to step aside, but you shouldn’t make a guide to action out of it. The
train may be late, the weather may be rainy, the cafe may not have your
favorite muffin, the world is not perfect, and the girl who loves to travel
knows that very well. Do not get upset if something goes wrong or not the way
you’ve expected. Traveling is an opportunity to see the world and collect
interesting stories together with a beloved person. So, learn how to relax.
2. Learn how to value small things
During the trip, you will realize how few
things you need for happiness. Not only because heavy luggage makes life
difficult for you when traveling from place to place with your girlfriend, no.
Traveling is a wonderful way to change your lifestyle, both at mental and
3. Get to know yourself better
Traveling is a great way to get to know
yourself better and understand real values in life. You will not meet glamorous
chicks who are ready to give their kidney for a new brand handbag or shoes
among travelers, or those who throw tantrums depending on the location of the
stars. Such people prefer to stay at home and do not go camping. So, you should
learn yourself better and be prepared to date an adequate girl.
4. Be easy-going
If you decide to date a traveler, then you
will never have to persuade her to try something new. Unexplored routes, exotic
dishes, unexpected trips, and piquant sensations are what she will strive for.
However, you should be the same easy-going to keep her company.
5. Become an interesting interlocutor
No matter what kind of education your
girlfriend has, she must still be smart to travel the world. There is simply no
other way for this than knowledge, intelligence, and common sense. Traveling is
not only tanning on beaches and dancing until the morning. So, if you want to
date such a girl, you should match her.
If you choose a girl who loves to travel,
then you will choose a new life. Yes, perhaps your life will be too stormy, too
unpredictable, and sometimes even dangerous, but it certainly will not be
boring and bland.